The best way to pay for a lovely moment is to enjoy it.
-Richard David Bach (Author, 1936 – )
A few posts back, I wrote about some of the benefits of long-distance relationships. You learn so much and come to appreciate one another in a wonderful way. But I would be remiss if I didn’t let myself have a pity party once in awhile, and as he prepared to leave tonight and drove away, I found myself desperate for him to stay and just be “normal” for a little bit longer.
One of the hardest things about living alone in a strange place is the lack of human contact. As I said in a previous post, when I walk in my apartment after a goodbye, I am suddenly overwhelmed with a sense of “too quiet, too empty, too lonely” (if you know me, this is rough going!). I can go several days at a time with minimal conversation, just because of the nature of my lifestyle. I know I can go out and about, but what I miss the most are the gentle moments of a hand on my face, laughter from the other room, the presence of someone I love next to me on the couch.
In light of all these fresh feelings, I thought I would compose a brief list of things one can enjoy when sharing time with a loved one–things that I especially miss when we are apart. I hope you will find your significant other and take a moment to appreciate the following things:
- Calling out “I love you” from another room and hearing them call back.
- Holding hands in the car.
- Shutting the front door behind you and sitting down to relax instead of packing up their things.
- Watching shows together and high-fiving at all the best jokes.
- Having someone to help with cooking, the dishes, taking the trash out, etc…. 🙂
- Getting a back rub and calming words when you are sleepless from insomnia.
- Making weird noises to yourself and hearing another’s laugh.
- Being cared for when you’re sick.
- Date nights.
- Slow dancing in the kitchen to no music.
- Sharing desserts (this might be a downside, now that I think of it…)
- A hug whenever you need it.
- Always celebrating birthdays, Valentine’s Days, and anniversaries together.
This list could go on forever! I know that we are blessed to live in the 21st century, and we take advantage of all the communicative technology available to us as often as possible. But nothing will ever compare to having someone next to you when that’s all you’d need to feel a little better.
Thanks for putting up with my brief pity-party! What things do you appreciate most about your significant other?